I have to say something about these people that I know. They pretend to be your friend and then when things don't exactly go their way...all hell breaks loose! I tried to explain that the day would come when they wouldn't like what was happening but would they listen???? NO!!! Those kinds of friends are called fairweather friends: (A friend who is only a friend when circumstances are pleasant or profitable. At the first sign of trouble, these capricious, disloyal friends will drop their relationship with you.)
When things started going down hill just like I had predicted...the shit hit the fan and I was the bad guy.
The whole time I was friends with "her" she couldn't go anywhere alone. I had to drive her and in the grocery store I had to stand in the line with her so she didn't "freak" out. I watched her three kids for over a week while she went on vacation. It was almost like she assumed I would do it with no compensation and no questions asked.
On Halloween we were all walking through the neighborhoods and I fell and broke my ankle. I wanted to go back to my vehicle but she kept on walking and walking with me hobbling and limping behind her, all the while my ankle turned a very ugly shade of purple and swelled twice the normal size. When I asked her why she wouldn't stop she said, "I thought you were trying to walk it off"
She never once looked at the ankle or asked me if I was ok. She is always only interested in herself. She is an egomaniac (A person whose ego exceeds both his intelligence and his capacity to see beyond his own personal interests.) She spends at least twelve hours a day, after she gets out of bed at 2 pm, on the computer. Stopping only long enough to throw together a meal devoid of any spices...yuk!
These people tramatized me and I had to put up with them for six months until I found my own place and moved out. It sucks when you have to rely on others for your basic needs...never again. I won't allow any of that to ever happen again. Whew...I needed to get that off my chest. LOL
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